Q&A: Is it a good idea to use the “sex toys” to a woman you love?
Question by Realquestion: Is it a good idea to use the "sex toys" to a woman you love?
I have used "sex toys" with my girl friend. I used it because I "believe" that it will excite her more, and therefore, excite me as well. I did try to get the answer from my girl friend, but I could not get a clear answer. She never say it in straight words that she likes it. She did question me why I want use the "sex toys" because she thinks that making love should be pure and beautiful. However, from the "response" when I used the "sex toys", I do feel that she is indeed more excited. Furthermore, each time I hinted that I would bring the "sex toys" with me to her place, she seems to receive it very well.
I am not sure...I would appreciate answers from the ladies.
Best answer:
Answer by emo_luvs_music
sex toys ?????????????? wtf r thoughs
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Courtney Said,
February 14, 2012 @ 12:56 am
Sex toys are fun weather a lone or your with your partner. It adds a ellimate of suprise to the whole thing and gives her a lot more pleasure. Her response is kinda vague. She might not want you to think she is too kinky, but I think she is trying to slowly tell you let do this. I like sex toys with you.
Karma Said,
February 14, 2012 @ 1:31 am
Hell yea…..it adds to the pleasure!!!!
mildew Said,
February 14, 2012 @ 2:18 am
A change is always welcome once in a while. But make sure you are not being replaced by the sex toys. Try to satisfy her as much as the toys do. Add more love and be experimental. You both should enjoy the love making not just one person. Good Luck!
Runt Said,
February 14, 2012 @ 2:32 am
She may not give you a straight answer, but yes the sex toys are a good idea. I think that love making should be pure and beautiful also, but lets be honest. Sometimes it has to be fun and erotic. With change comes growth. A relationship can not grow without change and compromise. Adding new things to your sex life can always make things more fun and interesting. Try some warming massage oils and blindfolds. They are very intriguing.
kissmeimirish452 Said,
February 14, 2012 @ 3:16 am
ive been in a similar situation and there were times where she wanted to and didnt want to(use the toys). i have an extremely open relationship with her so i just flat out ask her. i say do the same. and be honest. tell her why you want to. she should want to please you as well.
martinsdac Said,
February 14, 2012 @ 3:32 am
Sex toys are great if you both enjoy using them, but you should not put pressure on her to use them. Normally people start using toys when they have tried everthing else.
sexy*sabrina Said,
February 14, 2012 @ 4:16 am
i would keep using them , she’s probably just embarrassed to say that she likes it.
love4wheelin Said,
February 14, 2012 @ 4:36 am
If you are unclear I’d tell her exactly like you just did here… if you think she is OK with it..I’d go for it.. but always ask her before you just “use them”.. no unexpected surprises, also it’s not something that is needed all of the time.. remember those 2 things and you will be fine..Have Fun!!
20something Said,
February 14, 2012 @ 4:48 am
hey if you and your woman like it. and she seems to be going along with it? i feel theres ntohing wrong with brining something exciting to the bedroom as long as you are both on the same page. maybe you can ask her sometime if she likes it, becuase if she doesnt, you would stop bringing them in a heartbeat. im sure she would love to hear that from you. if you use them each and every time she might think she isnt doing it for you. ask her. do it with AND without toys. but like i said, nothing wrong with it.
Fashion queen Said,
February 14, 2012 @ 4:54 am
Well ask your self this…
“Is my girl kinky?” Me personally would just like to have pure Dick in my pussy cause sex toys is for when us girls are lonley not when there is a man is around!! gosh
lolly Said,
February 14, 2012 @ 5:22 am
she might not like the toys because she might only want you in her not all people like toys.